After 24 years, I did something that terrified me.
I climbed back onto a horse. ?
Now, let me be clear: I wasn’t casually strolling up with cowboy swagger like I’d just walked out of a country music video. Oh no. My heart was pounding, my legs were wobbling, and I was 100% convinced the horse could smell my fear. (Spoiler: he probably could.)
But here’s the funny thing. The moment I sat down in the saddle, it was like no time had passed. The balance, the rhythm, the connection – it all came back. Like muscle memory. Like home.
And the exhilaration? Off the charts!
That moment reminded me of something I see business owners wrestle with every single day: we know what we want to do, but fear and doubt keep us standing on the sidelines.
Fear Never Really Goes Away (But That’s Not the Point)
I don’t care how confident you are (whether you’re riding horses or running a six-figure coaching business) fear always finds a way to sneak in.
Launching that course?
Hiring your first team member?
Raising your prices?
Yeah, fear will whisper, “You’re not ready. What if it doesn’t work? What if you look stupid?”
Here’s the truth: waiting until you’re “not scared” is like waiting for your inbox to hit zero. It’s never gonna happen.
Instead, you do it scared.
You tack up anyway. You hit publish anyway. You raise your hand in the metaphorical arena and say, “Okay fear, you can ride along, but I’m steering this thing.”
The Saddle Metaphor You Didn’t Know You Needed
Getting back on that horse after 24 years was a lot like what I see my clients experience with their businesses.
- Balance: You wobble at first, but once you lean into it, your body remembers what to do. Same goes for shifting into a new level in your business – it feels shaky, but you’ve got more experience than you think.
- Rhythm: Riding is about finding the right pace. Push too hard, and you’ll burn out (or end up in the dirt). Too slow, and you’re not going anywhere. Business works the same way.
- Connection: Horses don’t lie. They feel your energy. So do your clients. When you show up authentically – even scared – they respond.
What This Means for You, Dear Business Owner
If you’re a digital marketer, coach, or course creator, I know there’s something you’ve been avoiding. Maybe it’s launching that new program. Maybe it’s finally automating your backend so you’re not drowning in admin work. Maybe it’s outsourcing those tasks you secretly loathe but keep doing anyway.
Here’s the kicker: the longer you stand on the ground overthinking it, the scarier it gets.
The only way to get through it? Swing your leg over and start riding.
Will it be perfect? Nope.
Will it be uncomfortable? Absolutely.
But will it feel exhilarating when you realize you can do it scared? You bet.
Your Call to Action (Yes, I’m Talking to You)
So here’s my challenge: what’s one thing you’ve been putting off because you’re scared?
? Write it down.
? Commit to doing it this week.
? And then do it scared.
If I can climb back on a horse after two decades, you can launch that new funnel, raise your rates, or finally block off your vacation without worrying your business will implode.
Because fear isn’t a stop sign. It’s a saddle. And the ride is waiting.And if you’re ready to take that “do it scared” energy into your business, I can help. Whether it’s creating a strategy, building workflows, or setting up automations that free you up to grow, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Let’s take the first step together → servossvirtualservices.com/contact
